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The low-down on anal play
Anal Play The anus is a highly sensitive and potentially erogenous zone but one that for many of us is still a very taboo area although that is certainly changing. As children most of us have been told that our bottom is dirty place and it's difficult to overcome that idea and embrace safe and clean anal play as a potential source of amazing sensations.
The anus is filled with sensitive nerve endings and although many of us have stumbled upon the anus as an erogenous zone at one time in our lives but because of the social stigma attached to it few of us actually stand up and admit too it let along celebrate it.
That's gradually changing. More and more people are experimenting with anal play as a healthy way of exploring sexual possibilities. Anal toys are dildos and vibrators made especially for anal insertion and you will be amaze how popular they are so lose your inhibitions and explore the world of anal toys. You'll be glad you did.
WARNING!!!!!! There aren’t too many hard and fast rules when it comes to sex toys butt there are some specifically for Anal Play
If it's going up your butt, it must have a flared base or something to stop the toy from continuing on its merry way up to your colon. Follow this advice and you will never end up at the emergency room waiting for a doctor to go spelunking.
Both men and women can achieve anal orgasm so there are a wide variety of butt toys. The walls of the rectum are lined with nerve endings that make anal stimulation especially pleasurable for all.
For women, the fuller anal feeling during vaginal penetration can be that little extra they are looking for. U need to use A LOT of LUBE! And when you think you have used enough you need to add some more! If it hurts stop!
Butt Plugs (such as the Pout Omega and Zulu )
A butt plug is quite simply a small toy that is inserted in the rectum its designed to be inserted and left in. Many people enjoy the sense of fullness that butt plugs bring, much in the same way many women enjoy the fullness experienced during vaginal sex. Others enjoy the sensation of inserting something in their anus.
Butt plugs come in all different shapes and sizes. Usually they have a bulge on their shaft and then narrow at the base. To keep the plug from working its way out and the flared base assures you won’t lose the plug in the rectum.. For newcomers to the anal scene, the sizes sometimes appear ridiculous, but anal aficionados demand satisfaction and toy companies are more than happy to oblige. The smallest, (and most popular) butt plugs are less than an inch wide and about 3.5 inches long. From there, butt plugs increase in size to almost astronomical proportions. Beginners are advised to stick to the more modest models.
If you like vibration, you can also get vibrating which can also offer a surprising vibration to any penis inserted into the vagina during intercourse!
Silicone or acrylic is the best material for butt plugs because it can be sterilised.
Anal beads (like Flexi felix) These are very popular and consist of beads on a string designed for anal insertion. They may be plastic or metal and vary in size, colour and texture. They are a perfect toy if you're interested in exploring anal stimulation but feel hesitant to begin with something as obtrusive as a butt plug. Some people find it extends their orgasm to withdraw the beads when they orgasm
Anal beads are enjoyed by those who experience intense anal stimulation in the area surrounding the outer sphincter. Both males and females can find these sensations to be pleasurable because of the sensitive nerves contained in the rectum and sphincter. Some find that larger beads produce a greater stimulation and request beads as large as golf balls. Those who are trying anal beads for the first time should start small and gradually find the size best for them.
How do you use anal beads? Anal beads are a simple sex toy to use. They are inserted into the anus slowly bead by bead. Some find that the removal of the anal beads at the point of orgasm to be most delightful, while others may find that this stimulation is simply too intense. You will have to explore on your own to determine how anal beads best fit into your sex life.
Safe Anal Play Here are a few tips to ensure safe anal play: Use as much lubricant as you think you will need, add some more, and then add a whole lot more than that and you should be there! The anus and rectum are not naturally lubricated like the vagina, making artificial lubrication a must. Whenever engaging in any sort of anal play, use a liberal amount of lubricant. Avoid using anal lubricant has the added ingredient of benzocaine, a numbing agent to help prevent any pain the pain is there for a reason and you need to take heed of it!
Never insert anything sharp into your anus. The rectum is lined with thin, sensitive tissue.
Make sure your anal toys have a flared base. Toys can slip in, and unlike the vagina there is no natural barrier preventing objects from traveling further up the body. Avoid an embarrassing trip to the ER.
Respect your body. If you're experimenting with anal play for the first time, go slow and be gentle.
Relax. Relaxing your sphincter is the key to enjoyable anal play. Try taking a warm bath to relax your sphincter. Relaxation and lubrication are the two most important things to remember before you try any form of anal play
Tip: You can use a condom with your anal beads. By placing a condom over the beads with each use you will keep you beads clean, making them safe to share with your partner.
It is impossible to obtain a conviction for sodomy from an English jury. Half of them don’t believe that it can physically be done, and the other half are doing it.
~Winston Churchill
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