We are asked all the time what the purpose of a cock ring is , how effective it is and why its worth investing in one.
"Go ask Alice " has this answer which we think it pretty good:
"A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.
Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber. Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit. For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely. Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.
Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect. Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space. The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard. Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier — something that works for finger and toe rings, too.
Adult-oriented stores with genital jewelry departments sometimes have fitting rooms where you can try on merchandise. If you're into advanced planning, you, or your partner, can measure your penile girth, or approximate how many of your fingers bunched together equal the thickness of their fleshy friend. The flexibility of rubber and other elasticized cock rings allows a greater range of fit for more differently endowed men, but they are not one-size-fits-all.
For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly. If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off immediately. It's also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold. In addition, it's dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage. An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection. This is called priapism, a prolonged erection. Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don't worry — the staff at the ER has seen this before.
Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport. In these high-security times, metal detectors will catch some of these penis-erectors that are tricky to explain and/or remove for closer inspection "
:Frequently Asked Questions
Q. What is a cock ring and what?s it supposed to do?
A. As the name implies, a cockring is a hoop made of metal, leather, or rubber, that encircles the base of the penis and/or the scrotum. Once you have an erection, a cockring is used to restrict blood flow out of the penis, helping to control both erection and ejaculation. It also creates sensations of tightness and pressure that heighten sensitivity and the intensity of an orgasm. Oh yeah, one other thing: it looks and feels hot as hell!
Q. Who uses them?
A. Their design is uniquely male, but that?s the only limitation.Cockrings are deeply rooted in their physical context and the emotional needs of the people who use them. They are an indispensable tool for anyone seeking greater confidence, satisfaction, intensity, control, pleasure, and erotic intimacy.
Q. How do I put one on?
A. Cockrings are usually worn at the base of the penis, behind the scrotum, although some men wear them around the shaft of the penis only. It?s easiest to put on a cockring when the penis is not fully erect. Start by tucking your testicles (one at a time) through the ring, then fold your penis down, insert the tip of it under the ring and, while holding onto the tip, pull the ring up towards your body. Then, simply adjust it to make sure it fits comfortably and wait for the magic! (To remove the ring, push your soft penis back through the ring and ?untuck? your testicles.)
Q. How do I know what size to get?
A. Fit is extremely important! Too small a ring, and you'll never get it on. Too large, and it won't hug tight enough to work.
From gearessential.com we have this excellent guide
Dress for Success, A Well Fitted Cockring
Now boys this is not the time to lie about dick size. Remember it’s not the meat it’s the motion. If you go to big it won’t work and it could be very embarrassing when it falls down your pant leg at that charity ball. Just tell people you wear a 2 1/8” ring. No one will know the truth.
It is just as important that the ring isn’t too tight once it is on. Blue balls just aren’t pretty. In all seriousness wearing a cockring that is to tight can lead to what is called priapism, an erection that does not go away. Now it may sound appealing to be hard and ready to go all the time but this condition can be serious and requires medical attention. If the erection does not go down shortly after intercourse try some cold water or ice on your penis (or think of your mother) to bring it down.
They are worn around the base of the penis behind the testicles. To put on the ring carefully push the balls through one at a time. Follow by coaxing the shaft through the ring. To fit properly, a cock ring should be loose enough to get on and off easily, but a bit snug to work its magic once the blood starts pumping.
Some men like the feel of a ring gently tugging at their balls and wear their rings all day but we suggest caution. It is not recommended that rings be worn for extended periods of time or during sleep when spontaneous erections can occur. It is important to remove the ring at the first sign of any pain or numbness of the testicles. If you are new to cockrings we recommend wearing it for no longer then 15-20 minutes.
A well fitted cockring can be great addition to your sexual play as long it is the correct size. It can add to the intensity by prolonging the orgasm.
To measure yourself for a cockring, take a string and slip it behind yours balls and tug it up around the top of your penis (where it meets your body). Mark the string on both sides where it comes together at a snugness that is comfortable for you. This measurement will give you your circumference, now take your circumference measurement and divide by pi (3.14.) This measurement will give you your diameter or ring size. It is recommended you do this a couple times to assure a proper measurement. Many adult stores have fitting rooms where a man can try out the proper size. We find that the most common sizes are 1 7/8” and 1 ¾”.
Conversion Chart
Circumference Diameter (ring size)
5.50” 1 3/4”
5.89” 1 7/8”
6.28” 2”
6.67” 2 1/8”
Q. Can I hurt myself?
A. With a little common sense, you should be able to use our cockrings without any injury. The most important advice is to make sure it?s not too tight and that you remove it immediately if you feel any discomfort. Take your time putting it on and taking it off?using a small amount of lubrication eases the process (and adds to the stimulation!).
Warning: Don't use these devices if you have an injury to your groin or genitals. Do not use cockrings if you bleed easily or have a blood clotting disorder, if you are diabetic, or if you suffer from any peripheral vascular or nerve disease. Do not use these products if you are taking anticoagulants, aspirin, or any other blood-thinning medication. In the event use causes discomfort or any unusual body changes -- including bruising, pain, bleeding or loss of sensation -- discontinue use immediately and check with a sex-positive physician. Do not place over sore, swollen, or infected areas or areas without sensation.
Q. How do I keep them clean?
A. . We recommend using warm soapy water and towel drying